Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Slowly goes it

I'm working on my house.  Actually, I'm working on lots of different projects in my house and outside of it.  I have so many ideas, but the fact of the matter is, I'm slow.  It seems to me, that what other people get done in a day, takes me two, or maybe a week.  Or what should take just a few minutes, inevitably turns into an hour.  Frustrating yes, but over time, I've learned to compensate.  When I estimate how long it will take me to do something, I usually at least double the time, mentally, so as not to be too frustrated when I'm not done as expected.  When planning for events and parties, I've learned to 'under-commit', meaning, I take what I think I'd like to do and half it!  I've learned that I'm not great at actually preparing to do a project, either.  Perhaps one of the reasons things take so much time is that I'm constantly running for supplies -whether it be to the garage or to the store.  I think, though, that I've started to be realistic about this aspect of my personality.  I try to be honest with people, letting them know that I need lots of time to plan things - whether its a visit to my house, or a craft project, I need to know when something is 'due', so to speak, weeks in advance.  That way I can factor my slowness into the equation and still come out with an experience or product that I find acceptable.  Do I like my slowness? No.  But I've come to accept it.

2 comments:

  1. That's a really interesting perspective. Most of the time I am zooming through life. I have about 30 things on my to-do list & I feel pressure that they are not "done" so sometimes I do them & then I'm not pleased with the results so I have to re-do them sometime later or keep "working" on them. I also envy people the peace they have inside to sit quietly & meditate or just enjoy the moment! You have lots of enviable qualities, Junie!

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  2. Gasp! A secret blog!

    I'm slow, too! I picked this up from a friend and have taken to calling my friends who are so different from me in this way "high capacity." But I've seen the results of your labor and you are full of talent!

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